For those of you who know me well, you know that I tend to be a bit of a perfectionist.
Dishes must be cleared and rinsed after each meal.
Everyone needs to bring in whatever they took with them during the car ride.
Shoes are always lined up on the rug; coats and bags are hung on the appropriate hook by the door.
Beds are always made before leaving our room in the morning.
Pillows must be fluffed before walking away from the couch.
Closets are always tidy and organized just as the labels say (yes, the shelves are labeled...aren't yours?!?!). Shirts are color coordinated, short sleeve to long sleeve.
Laundry is done the same day every week.
The house is cleaned the same day every week.
What can I say?...I need my routine or I may throw a fit!!!!
I have been discovering that this may not be what
most people would consider "normal". There may be a few, crazy people out there who think the same way I do...and boy do we understand each other well!!!
The last couple weeks have found me trying to relax a bit. Not worrying so much if the house isn't cleaned on Monday or the laundry washed, folded, and put away on Tuesday.
Do I really want my girls to remember their mommy as someone who cared more about having a clean and organized house than spending time and making memories with them?!?
I am pleased to say that I have been doing a pretty darn good job of changing this.
I am discovering that the pile of whatever it is that needs to be put away will still be there the next time I walk by it. I am learning that even a few minutes here and there is equal to a million minutes in their eyes.
We have been playing more, reading more, and just taking time out to sit and enjoy each other.
Paint and play-doh no longer make me anxious as I hover over them to keep the mess from getting too bad...instead, I make a mess with them or allow them to be creative while I work on something else. The mess cleans up just fine when we are all done...and, now that I have allowed them to, I have discovered they can even clean it up pretty good themselves.
I am no longer walking around, picking up after the girls as they set something down. I even allow them to keep the crayons and coloring books out for a day or two, just in case they want to go back to them.
It'a amazing how freeing it can be to let go of some of that silly nonsense and just enjoy all the God has blessed us with!
Here are some things that have made me smile latley.

Breck has been very in to wearing her watch and keeping an eye on the time. Evidently, she forgot where her jewelry box was!

I pulled back the curtains only to find these hiding on the window ledge. Taylor loves to hide things around the house...especially if it's not hers!

Taylor and Breck were playing dogs and left out the water and food bowls in case they got thirsty or hungry again.